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I've never played FFXI so I can't really comment on that except to say that it's my understanding that mobs respawn WAY faster in WoW than in that. So while it sucks to have your camp cleared on you, the mobs will be back shortly.

As for the rest - I'm not exactly sure what's going on. Are the other people killing stuff you're not actively fighting? If so - again, an annoyance but like I said above, if there are a lot of people clearing stuff fast then the respawns are generally equally as fast. Another option there would be to whipser that person (type /w playername) or just in say and ask if they want to group instead of fighting for the mobs.

I believe the warrior should always pull. No exception. I keep seeing posts and even game guides that believe a hunter or rogue should pull then the tank should magicly grab aggro. A warrior needs rage to grab aggro fast. Without it he has to attack and be attacked to build rage to use aggro generating abilities. When a hunter pulls the warrior has little to no rage potentially built up to pull aggro off the hunter or rogue. It's harder for a warrior to grab aggro off someone else. Next there's the idea that a warrior or rogue can fein or dissappear if a bad pull happens. They can for sure. But what happens if it is resisted? Also in the rare case of a bad pull the rest of the group can retreat and not attack the mobs letting the warrior grab aggro and die. Let me know what you think and if I'm off base on this.

My wife is looking to go resto. She's not healed in a raid environment in a while. I understand how to heal as a paladin/priest, but not so much as a druid. I want to know what's the best way to heal as a resto druid (61 resto) is. Also, what are the best addons for tracking hots/removing poisons/curses/etc. Do I set my wife up with Xperl and Clique like I do on the pally/priest? It never seemed to track HoT's very well and that's what druids almost solely rely on.